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May 22, 2009

dailies: weekending

It’s been a very fast work and home week. From the perspective of a stay-at-home turned work-from-home single mom mentality, this is good news. The past weeks have been good to me money-wise but I feel that stress is finally catching up again. I find myself waking up in the middle of the night because of throbbing headaches. I get up and go downstairs to swallow one of those pain relievers that has been a staple in my diet for how many years now. It’s bad.

But there is enough to pay the bills and buy me coffee. And I know there will be more work coming. Some days it feels like it’s not enough but this week it felt like plenty.

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photo of the day

photo of the day: julia roitfeld

i love her life

especially her shoes

happy weekend, people!

wherever you are…

photos: theselby
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May 20, 2009

yellow and coldplay

Seriously, I think Gwyneth Paltrow did the right thing by marrying Chris Martin of Coldplay. I have been madly in love with their tunes ever since hearing yellow on the radio. And do you know that the band is offering a free download of their new album. It’s their way of saying thank you to all their fans. You can download it right here.

happy coldplaying, everyone!

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May 18, 2009

napping

My weekdays are long and tiring right now. I get up around 7am which is quite late for some but it’s a bit early for me. I sleep late. I like to watch TV when everyone is already asleep. I have a thing for reality shows and TMZ and they show past my children’s bedtime. That’s why I get to watch those shows alone. Anyway, back to my weekdays. Tiring because as soon as I get up, I have to fix breakfast for my children. It’s not even much. Just some toasts and any beverage mainly. After which I check for some opps and I surf a bit before I give MG a bath. Then it’s time for lunch. If I have the time which is very rare, I cook. But most of the time, we just eat out. Then off we go to MG’s summer art class. You can pretty much have an idea how my days are spent daily. And for the first time after a long long time, I fell asleep awhile ago. Uninterrupted. I was tired and that short nap really did me good. I felt energized. I guess no matter how old we are, we still need that afternoon nap. I’m so going to nap whenever I can.

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family

May 17, 2009

my weird family

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My family has so many issues. First of, my bro who has been unlucky in love. He has never had a girlfriend he became friends with after the break-up. All his relationships ended badly. Some with bruises and some with plenty of blood, sweat and tears. And I don’t mean that figuratively. Break-ups are ugly, I know. But it’s an understatement when it comes to my bro’s part.

Now my sister. If you’re a reader of this blog, you would notice that I’ve written about my sis more than a couple of times. But it was always about my overall distaste about her. But this time it’s different. To begin with, she has not been getting along with her husband for years now. They always fight about the big things and even the most trivial things. My sis is very hard to get along with. We pity her husband so much. He’s a good provider and a good person. But he’s a changed man. Living with my sister, he had somehow gotten some of her bad traits. He’s now cynical and would easily get angry and irritated with everyone and everything. It’s hard to write about this because it involves my nephew and nieces. SO…more again next post…

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photo of the day

May 15, 2009

photo of the day: sunshine

It’s so sunny right now. I don’t know if I should be thankful for the sun but the heat is just too unbearable. I sweat doing nothing. And I can’t see my computer screen. I can’t even drink my favorite tea. Just the same, have a happy weekend, people. Wherever you may be….

pic via: nightfalls

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brother

May 10, 2009

i don’t like my brother’s GF

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I don’t like my brother’s girlfriend.  She’s ok and all but for some reason she’s driving my brother nuts.  She’s too demanding.  Although my brother does not complain or give details, I feel he’s being pressured into doing things he does not really like.  One advice.  Don’t ever enter a relationship where your partner lives in another city.  Choose someone who lives a few blocks from you.  If you’re the guy, you better listen to my advice.  Details soon.

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May 9, 2009

reflections of a mother

I thought I’d just share this with you on this special day. Thanks Nancy for posting this on Facebook. Happy Mother’s Day!

I gave you life, but cannot live it for you.

I can teach you things, but I cannot make you learn.

I can give you directions, but I cannot be there to lead you.

I can allow you freedom, but I cannot account for it.

I can take you to church, but I cannot make you believe.

I can teach you right from wrong, but I cannot always decide for you.

I can buy you beautiful clothes, but I can not make you beautiful inside.

I can offer you advice, but I cannot accept it for you.

I can give you love, but I cannot force it upon you.

I can teach you to share, but I cannot make you unselfish.

I can teach you respect, but I cannot force you to show honor.

I can advise you about friends, but cannot choose them for you.

I can advise you about sex, but I cannot keep you pure.

I can tell you the facts of life, but I can’t build your reputation.

I can tell you about drink, but I can’t say “no” for you.

I can warn you about drugs, but I can’t prevent you from using them.

I can tell you about lofty goals, but I can’t achieve them for you.

I can teach you about kindness, but I can’t force you to be gracious.

I can warn you about sins, but I cannot make you moral.

I can love you as a child, but I cannot place you in God’s family.

I can pray for you, but I cannot make you walk with God.

I can teach you about Jesus, but I cannot make Jesus your Lord.

I can tell you how to live, but I cannot give you eternal life.

I can love you with unconditional love all of my life … and I will.

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May 8, 2009

dailies: nothing to do

So I was ranting about our cable company the other day and I thought it would stop there. Well, cable’s out since last night. And I don’t know why. I can’t call them because we don’t have a phone line yet. I don’t want to use my celphone to check because you know how much it costs to call from a celphone. So I have to wait and check every now and then to see if it’s working. By the way, I just realized that I shouldn’t be complaining. There’s no good channel to watch, anyway. Still, I’m paying for the service. Ewan…

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May 6, 2009

dailies: between cable and tea

I hate our cable company. There aren’t too many choices. And I couldn’t even switch because the admin has an exclusive contract with our existing cable company. Which sucks because I’ve been watching reruns of Travel & Living shows the whole day and I’m getting tired of it. Thank God for books. I’ve decided just now to read Angels and Demons by Dan Brown again. The movie will be shown this month and I wouldn’t miss it for sure. The last movie I watched was Twilight and the sequel to it is taking much too long to make. Anyway, I think I’ll have tea to go with my reading. Talk to you soon.

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